Judgements

When we fail to keep an open mind; when we proceed thinking that we know what someone else will do (or why); when we think that we know about something completely,  we typically stop (free will) asking the "wopen questions"(who?, what?, why?, when?, where?, and what else?) .... some of those wonderful questions that pull us into the abundance of knowledge, possibilities, and empowerment which our Higher Power has for us. 

It is very clear to me that a major difference between brilliant performance and average performance is rooted in the kind of questions asked.  For example .... Is there an Ultimate Question?  Perhaps my favourite question is "What would perfect Love do in this situation? I attempt to ask this question continuously so that, when stressful situations, I seek the answer automatically without needing to consciously ask.  "I will form good habits and I will become their slave."

When people judge the reason(s) that some event/condition has manifested, they tend to act on their belief about those circumstances rather than first "going to God" and asking for awareness regarding the situation; thereby, missing the opportunity to open themselves up to guidance with respect to subsequent action that might be prudent/necessary .... effectively denying an opportunity for growth, JOY, PEACE, PROSPERITY.

When people judge the outcomes to their plans/expectations, it is more difficult for them to be happy and secure.  Things rarely turn out as I plan.  Whether they are better or worse, they are usually different.  If I do my best and keep an open mind, taking loving action, then allow that ("not my will God but Thine dear God ... this or something better.") whatever happens is always for my highest and best good, big picture outcomes have always surpassed my expectations; and, I find Joy in the (everywhere) present.  The effect is often instantaneous for me.

People who judge often present as arrogant/fearful (in their heart they must know that they can't control/predict everything and can't account for all potential outcomes by themselves).  Their sense of well-being tends to be susceptible to circumstances (outer driven vs inner driven) and they spend a lot of energy fighting life and/or hedging their responses/reactions.  They have not yet opened to the idea that it is "the meek that shall inherit the earth".

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